It's Dumb

Sometimes girls joke and say that guys are dumb. Usually this doesn't come out of nowhere, there's a reason for it. I'm not saying it's a valid reason..

I don't know if guys do the same thing. But I wouldn't blame them.

I've got myself in a predicament right now. My love life is all over the place. A few options have become evident and I've had to make some decisions. I haven't handled some things as well as I could have.. And some things weren't handled very well by others, and that's hurt me.

Lately I've been learning a lot about myself and how I communicate. In short, I'm not very good at it. There are soo many ways that I can improve. And I'm slowly recognizing goals I can make and the impact that their completion can have on my life.

Of course, that doesn't mean that miscommunication won't occur or that feelings won't be hurt. There may still be times when I cry myself to sleep because of things that weren't communicated well.

But looking forward, hopefully there will be improvement.

Cheers to the future!

Love,
D.J. Lathrop